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Befrienders Ministry

I was thirsty

and you gave me drink.

I was a stranger

and you welcomed me...

I was sick

and you visited me.

Matthew 25:35

  • Who are the Befrienders?

Befrienders are lay men and women who are interested in practicing their faith in a ministry to those around them.  They are supportive listeners and friends who encourage others to seek ways of healing themselves.

Befrienders believe we are all called to be ministers caring for and sharing with one another.

A Befriender is a person who through training learns skills and develops his/her gifts for bringing Christ's love to people who are ill, homebound, lonely, grieving, strangers, new parents, or experiencing other stress in their life.

  • What kinds of people do Befrienders serve?

People who are grieving the loss of a loved one

People who are lonely

People who are depressed

People who are in the process of separation or divorce

People who have lost a job

People who are single parents

People who are dying and the families of the terminally ill

People who are homebound or in a care facility

People who are care givers

People who are facing retirement

People who are new parents

Teenagers who have special needs as they grow

  • How does the Befriender Program work?

A Befriender attends a training session emphasizing listening skills and supportive caring skills. 

After this training, a Befriender attends supportive group meetings with other Befrienders.  These sessions offer on-going training, support and encouragement.

A Befriender will be offered a variety of ways to serve, among them:  making home visits, phone calls, hospital visits, sending cards, or helping someone who is ill.

A Befriender respects the confidentiality of the persons served.

  • Befriender Ministry is:

A caring lay ministry in which one person reaches out to another in time of need.

An ongoing, helping relationship –people who need help, get help.

  • A Befriender is:

A caring Christian who desires to offer his/her support to others.

A Sharing Christian who brings him/herself to each relationship, as a partner in another’s life experiences.

A helping Christian who has developed special gifts in caring.

  • A Befriender is not:

A licensed counselor or therapist.

A social worker, lawyer or adviser who provides professional help.

  • Befriender Ministry does not:

Replace the ministry of the pastors.  Rather, it complements and extends.

  • Whom do I contact?

If you would like more information on being a Befriender of if you would like a Befriender to call you, please contact Pastor Jan Hartsook at 763-571-1500, Karen Nelson at 651-486-2740, or Randee Arfmann at 763-571-1461.


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